The Love You Deserve

The Neglected Love

Have you ever been on an airplane and heard the flight attendant say, “In case of an emergency, put your own oxygen mask on first before helping others”? 

It’s not just good advice for flying; it’s a valuable life lesson. 

Why? Because you can’t give what you don’t have, especially when it comes to love.

“If you don’t love yourself, you won’t be able to fully love others. 

You’ll be too busy trying to fill your own love tank to worry about anyone else. 

It’s important to take care of yourself emotionally and mentally in order to be able to give your best to the people you love. 

So, give yourself a big ol’ hug and tell yourself that you’re amazing just the way you are! You deserve all the love in the world, and you should start by giving it to yourself!”

The Empty Love Tank

The pain of neglecting self-love can be deep. 

We rush through life, juggling responsibilities and caring for our loved ones, all the while ignoring the most critical person: ourselves. 

This neglect creates a void, an empty love tank within us. 

We long to give love, yet our emotional reserves are depleted.

Picture this: You’re running on empty, trying to share love, but there’s nothing to give. 

It’s like expecting a dry well to provide water. 

This cycle can lead to emotional exhaustion, stress, and even resentment. 

It’s the pain of loving others without loving yourself.

Self-Love Isn’t Selfish

It’s self-preservation. 

It’s recognizing your worth, nurturing your emotional well-being, and filling your love tank. 

It’s about giving yourself that big ol’ hug and whispering, “I’m amazing just the way I am.” It’s knowing that you deserve all the love in the world, and it all begins by loving yourself.

When you’re emotionally and mentally fulfilled, you become a wellspring of love for others. 

By prioritizing self-love, you not only enrich your own life but also create a boundless reservoir of love to share with those you hold dear. 

It’s a beautiful cycle that starts with giving yourself the love you truly deserve. 

So, go ahead, give yourself that big ol’ hug and embark on a journey of self-love, because when you love yourself, you unlock the power to love others fully and deeply.